{"id":468,"date":"2017-09-09T10:19:43","date_gmt":"2017-09-09T10:19:43","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.realworldconsulting.kiwi\/rwc\/?p=468"},"modified":"2018-05-30T19:36:31","modified_gmt":"2018-05-30T19:36:31","slug":"do-not-trick-yourself-into-believing-that-you-know-it-all-you-dont","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.realworldconsulting.kiwi\/rwc\/rwc-blog\/do-not-trick-yourself-into-believing-that-you-know-it-all-you-dont\/","title":{"rendered":"Do Not Trick Yourself Into Believing That You Know It All &#8211; You Don&#8217;t&#8230;None of Us Do"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">I continue to be bemused and disappointed by the extent to which some egos cause the decline (and sometime &#8220;collapse&#8221;) of Kiwi businesses. Yes, there is a strong sense of pride and fierce independence that runs through the veins of many Kiwis. Accepted and admired.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">However, it is this same strong feeling of &#8220;having\/ wanting to stand on our own two feet no matter what&#8221; among a big chunk of the New Zealand population that is actually causing the <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">demise<\/span> of many Kiwi businesses. Why ? Because business owners with this inbuilt strong sense of pride\/ independence are:<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">a) Convinced that no one in the world could possibly ever offer them guidance\/ support\/ input that would add value to and\/ or advance their business.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">b) Strongly resistant to seeking or accepting guidance\/ input into their business by other people &#8211; despite the qualifications and\/ or experience and\/ or achievements of other people who are available to help.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">c) Not willing to accommodate the ideas\/ thoughts\/ inputs of other people generally. In other words they consider that they alone have a monopoly on good ideas that are relevant for their business.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">I once worked alongside a director who had the memorable saying of &#8220;<span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">splendid in our isolation<\/span>&#8220;. Meaning ? This expression means that business owners can run the risk of seeing themselves as being splendid at what they do and\/ or in terms of their accomplishments when the owner keeps to themselves and doesn&#8217;t belong to (or interact with) a network such as franchise. This self-sense\/ illusion of superiority\u00a0is a &#8220;bubble&#8221; that can &#8220;burst&#8221; quite quickly if\/ when the business owner starts to consider (become aware of) the practices\/ achievements\/ performances of similar businesses operating around them&#8230;including discovering where their shortcomings exist relative to other players in the same industry.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">I know of a considerably experienced person who walked away from a major (nationally available) commercial capability improvement programme during 2016 mainly for the reason that he become fed-up at trying to influence these strongly independent business owners to open their minds far enough to at least trial the mentoring\/ guidance that is available via this programme. A classic &#8220;you can lead a horse to water, but you can&#8217;t make it drink&#8221; situation.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">My advice to Kiwi business owners is <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">open your mind to hear\/ see what suitably qualified\/ experienced people have to offer you in terms of insights into your business &#8211; and\/ or plausible ways for you to consider improving it<\/span>. Remember &#8211; often it is difficult to &#8220;see the wood for the trees&#8221; when you&#8217;re so submerged in your business. You don&#8217;t have to &#8220;accept&#8221; (act on\/ implement) the suggestions that others provide you &#8211; that&#8217;s your prerogative. But at least be prepared to give them a fair hearing &#8211; a gem of an idea that has the potential to improve how you operate your business may just show itself as a result.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I continue to be bemused and disappointed by the extent to which some egos cause the decline (and sometime &#8220;collapse&#8221;) of Kiwi businesses. Yes, there is a strong sense of pride and fierce independence that runs through the veins of many Kiwis. Accepted and admired. However, it is this same strong feeling of &#8220;having\/ wanting to stand on our own two feet no matter what&#8221; among a big chunk of the New Zealand population that is actually causing the demise&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[3],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.realworldconsulting.kiwi\/rwc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/468"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.realworldconsulting.kiwi\/rwc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.realworldconsulting.kiwi\/rwc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.realworldconsulting.kiwi\/rwc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.realworldconsulting.kiwi\/rwc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=468"}],"version-history":[{"count":7,"href":"https:\/\/www.realworldconsulting.kiwi\/rwc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/468\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":850,"href":"https:\/\/www.realworldconsulting.kiwi\/rwc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/468\/revisions\/850"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.realworldconsulting.kiwi\/rwc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=468"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.realworldconsulting.kiwi\/rwc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=468"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.realworldconsulting.kiwi\/rwc\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=468"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}