{"id":781,"date":"2018-05-28T23:21:53","date_gmt":"2018-05-28T23:21:53","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.realworldconsulting.kiwi\/rwc\/?p=781"},"modified":"2018-05-30T08:53:57","modified_gmt":"2018-05-30T08:53:57","slug":"remember-to-have-a-bit-of-fun-along-the-way","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.realworldconsulting.kiwi\/rwc\/rwc-blog\/remember-to-have-a-bit-of-fun-along-the-way\/","title":{"rendered":"Remember to Have a Bit of Fun Along the Way !"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Last night I attended a parent meeting which focused on preparation for a school camp that is scheduled for June 2018. I will be attending this camp as a parent-helper.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">We are fortunate to live in a community within Hawke&#8217;s Bay which boasts a core of what I think of as &#8220;<span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><strong>old school Kiwi country people<\/strong><\/span>&#8220;. Definition of this demographic ? Easy, these people:<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">a) Are practical.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">b) Are realistic.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">c) Have grown-up acquiring values (and now impart to their children these same values) such as: empathy, friendliness, firm but fair\/ reasonable.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">The teacher who is leading this very cool 3 day adventure did a great job of presenting the parameters of the well-planned camp &#8211; including a comprehensive matrix of identified risks and associated risk mitigation measures. It was at the end of this presentation that I started to feel that something hadn&#8217;t been addressed, so I asked the question &#8220;<strong><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">is it O.K. for the attending parents to encourage the kids to enjoy themselves and have a bit of fun while on camp ?<\/span><\/strong>&#8220;.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">The more that legislation and regulation invades most areas of our lives as adults I feel that we tend to (inadvertently or not) pass-on a certain amount of &#8220;adhere\/ comply or be prepared to suffer the consequences&#8221; attitude\/ expectations to our children. <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><strong>This does nothing to encourage the development of confident kids who are prepared to take reasonable risks in life.\u00a0<\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">I think it is really important that as adults:<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">a) We remember to have some fun ourselves, as we walk our path in life; and<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">b) We remember to show developing young people that it is most certainly O.K. for them to feel\/ show enjoyment and have some fun in their lives.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">As a global community, it would be a very sad day indeed to see &#8220;fun&#8221; squeezed-out of human life.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Last night I attended a parent meeting which focused on preparation for a school camp that is scheduled for June 2018. I will be attending this camp as a parent-helper. We are fortunate to live in a community within Hawke&#8217;s Bay which boasts a core of what I think of as &#8220;old school Kiwi country people&#8220;. Definition of this demographic ? 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